The ringleader, Ruby*, a midwife by day and dominatrix by night, whipped me within an inch of my life while I was strung up on a St Andrew’s cross. At that point there were around seven of them, though the group has expanded exponentially since then. It was at this party that I met my first group of lifestyle party friends – who became my main introduction to the sadistic and sexy world that is the NYC kink party scene. I mean, I had to exercise my natural dominance at some point! That being said, I did of course keep my two friends naked and on leashes while I walked around meeting people. I’ve always been naturally dominant but, since I was new to the scene, I decided to take on a more passive, submissive role this first night. At that point I was fairly new to the world of fetish, and so I opted to start small by taking off all my clothes and dancing nude in a suspended cage with my best friend while the rest of the patrons showed up.Īs nervous as I was, it helped that I was with two of my closest friends, one of whom has been active in the Fetish community for some time and ostensibly knows what he’s doing.
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Iron Bell Academy, then located in Queens, was a full scale S&M dungeon which featured cages, suspension ropes, St Andrew’s crosses, and, of course, every kind of whip and chain your skin can handle. I attended my first fetish party only a year and half ago at the now defunct Iron Bell Academy (which after a bit of research appears to have been shut down due to a group of moms who were pissed that the space was located above their kid’s dance studio). In preparation, I have found myself reminiscing on some of my first experiences within the New York kink party scene in the hopes that they may offer a guideline to my own party planning. And, although I was 75% sure that this invitation was at least partly just an excuse to bang, I was absolutely thrilled. He wrote to me to ask if I would co-host the next one alongside him.
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Tinder girl proceeded to pass along my number to one of the male attendees, her co-host – whose apartment was, it turns out, the party’s setting.
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It was on the smaller side in comparison to the parties I’ve attended in the past but I hit it off with all of the women I met there, and subsequently went home with their phone numbers – which I consider a success. Some background: It was only last week that I attended a fetish party in Tribeca hosted by a woman I met on Tinder. I have not been given much time to prepare for this party. I’ve been in a handful of orgies in the past and there was decidedly nothing planned out about any of them, but in the interest of making sure my fellow fetishists enjoy themselves in a safe and healthy environment, I figure there are certain preparations I should make. Next week will be my first time co-hosting a fetish party and I’m trying to figure out how best to plan out the orgy. Looking back on her formative experiences going to fetish parties in NYC, and preparing to host her own for the first time, Amanda Lang talks about what makes an ideal fet party. Share the post "A Fetish Party Veteran Explains What Makes an Ideal Fet Party"